Self-Compassion Meditation Retreat in Sri Lanka
February 21-28, 2024
At a beautiful, inspired setting in the hills above Kandy, this self-compassion meditation retreat in Sri Lanka is meant to re-connect you with kindness while nourishing your body, mind and spirit. Whether you suffer from anxiety or burnout, low self-esteem, or the idea that you don’t deserve love, the guided self-compassion meditations and retreat environment can help you dismantle these patterns and make a fresh start.
Along with the retreat sessions, you’ll have time to enjoy the tropical gardens, an open-air restaurant terrace, spa treatments, sunrise and sunset vistas over a wide valley, a swimming pool with jacuzzi, and delicious meals cooked with love.
- Awaken your heart with meditations that evoke genuine kindness and compassion
- Receive tools for developing well-being and resilience
- Be kinder with your dear body
- Cultivate appreciation and gratitude
- Learn a nourishing method for “heart-to-heart” communication
Join the free Open Sunday Self-Compassion meditations.
Write here to get the zoom link for the online sessions: firstname.lastname@example.org.
Start & end times:
Wed. Feb 21 9.00am – Wed. Feb 28 12.30pm
Following international travel, everyone is strongly encouraged to arrive Feb. 19th.
Retreat cost: $610, or $550, early bird price by Dec. 20
Double room: $90 per night per person, including full board (3 meals a day, tea and snacks at the breaks), taxes and surcharges *.
Triple room: $82 per person with full board, inclusive *.
Single room: $130 per night with full board, inclusive *.
Included in the hotel price
3 meals a day; tea and snacks at breaks
Swimming pool & outdoor lounge area
Open-air terrace restaurant with sweeping views
Yoga mats, meditation cushions and use of a spacious outdoor Yoga pavilion
Buffet meals provided according to requirements, e.g. vegetarian, ayurvedic, gluten-free.
A curry cooking lesson with the chef
One free Ayurvedic massage (15 minutes); and a 10% discount on additional Ayurvedic massages.
Exceptional experiences, an amazing atmosphere, and beautifully landscaped gardens.
The attentive and caring staff are happy to look after all your needs.
* NOTE – hotel price & retreat costs do not include:
Flight tickets, travel health insurance, a visa for Sri Lanka, or transportation to and from the airport (this can be organized separately by the hotel).
Self-compassion Meditation Retreat in Sri Lanka: Schedule
(subject to change, depending on extracurricular outings)
8 – 9am Breakfast
9 – 10.30 Session
10.30 – 11 Break
11 – 12.30 Session (Feb. 28th, this session ends the retreat)
1 – 4pm Lunch & break
4 – 5 Session
5 – 5.30 Break
5.30 – 6.30 Session
7 – 8pm Dinner
Meditation retreat sessions include:
- Tools for building well-being and resilience
- Cultivating appreciation and gratitude
- Constructive ways of relating with one’s inner critic
- Identifying and dismantling the barriers to having compassion for oneself
- An emergency on-the-spot method of self-compassion
- Research findings on the benefits of meditating on love
- Communication skills for authentic “heart-to-heart” listening
- Guided meditations that evoke kindness and compassion for oneself and others
- Gentle beginner’s movement, including Qi Gong or yoga.
The retreat is designed to support people who are new to meditation. The meditations are guided, so you can relax while listening and follow the flow.
For more information, write: email@example.com
I’ve been leading professional palliative care trainings and compassion retreats since 1978, and now I found the perfect spot. Coming to this hotel for two days, I found it so wonderful, beautiful and nourishing that I ended up staying for six weeks! Resting here, enjoying the good food and stunning views and regular Ayurvedic massages was the best thing I could do for my dear body. And, feeling the good heart and love of all the staff, I felt safe and well-cared for. You’re warmly invited to join my nourishing retreat at this lovely hotel in Sri Lanka, what visitors describe as “a little paradise on earth”.
– Christine Longaker
I started really working on self-forgiveness in the initial Sunday session I had with you one year ago, and feel so grateful to say that today when I did the “Self-forgiveness” meditation, there were only minor mistakes that I sought to forgive myself for and it was easy to have that loving presence just fill my heart. I basked in it and found immense joy. Thank you so much.
I notice changes in my physiology as there seems to be a lower level of activation in my body in response to stress. I have also observed that I’m much quicker to catch myself being self-critical and to turn that into self-compassion. I’ve also seen changes in my friendships and dating life as I find that I am much less judgmental and more loving and curious about others. I find myself seeking connection and relationships without any agenda. As it can be easy to return to old patterns, I enjoy attending the Sunday meditation group and engaging each day with the meditations you give us. Your meditations have helped me in my clinical practice as a psychologist. – Chris
I’ve been practicing the “Finding Breathing Space in your Body” meditation. As I have chronic pain, it has been revelatory to greet it with kindness. I’ve done straight-forward body scans and other mindful meditations for pain before, but I’ve never approached it with this loving, non-judgmental aspect, which is comforting. And, the word “dear”, as in “This dear body, is worthy of my love” is very helpful. It was a little hard to say because I am not used to treating my body so kindly. It feels soft and gentle. – Sally
The “Healing Warmth of Love” meditation was powerful and helped me to not only feel love for myself but to want to share that inner love with others. So I thank you for that and your other wonderful gifts. You have made such a positive impact and difference in my life and I’m sure the lives of many others all over the world. I am very much looking forward to meeting you and thanking you in person in Sri Lanka. – C.M.
For me the most useful thing in recent meditations has been learning to just sit with painful emotions and discomfort and not try to change anything. It’s really helped me in some difficult situations, for example, dealing with challenging relatives at a funeral. I felt more able to observe and relax, even if it felt unpleasant and triggering, and not be drawn in to habitual negative interactions, as I usually am.
It’s a really new approach for me to just accept situations or feelings I don’t like instead of trying to “improve” or correct them. It can be really challenging not to run from things but I’m learning to trust the process and now I’m seeing the benefits. A big thank you for your inspiration in creating these meditations. – Therese
I’ve learned from a trauma researcher, Dr. Bessel van der Kolk, that mindfulness can only be effective if we have self-compassion. I’ve been practicing mindfulness meditation for a long time, but have been missing this self-compassion and self-forgiveness piece in my practice. Being in your groups helped me fill in that missing piece. – Anon.
You’re welcome to join Christine’s free Open Sunday Self-Compassion meditations.
Write here to get the zoom link for the online sessions: firstname.lastname@example.org.
About Christine Longaker
My passion is to support people in re-connecting with their inner essence, the deep kindness and sense of ease with which they were born.
My first book, Facing Death and Finding Hope, was published by Doubleday in 1997, and is translated into 8 languages. I spent forty years training medical professionals in emotional and spiritual care for illness and dying, as well as self-care and preventing burnout.
Ten years ago, after a prolonged period of deep crises, I discovered that the core of our struggles is not feeling worthy of love, and not knowing how to come home to our true essence, which is free of suffering.
Since 2014 I’ve been researching and writing on self-compassion, resilience, forgiveness and easing grief. I offer free online guided meditations every Sunday, and a self-compassion retreat in Sri Lanka in February. My forthcoming book on self-compassion is drawn from years of personal research and teaching.